In a perfect world, no one would have to guess about someone's romantic
interest. You'd know if the guy you were lusting over you, and you'd
have the opportunity to avoid so many of the minefields that dating
throws in your path. Unfortunately, we don't always have the
straightforward relationships we'd like, but that doesn't mean that
clues aren't available for us to decipher. With the right information,
you can decode his signals and make an educated guess about his interest
level.
Step 1
Watch his body language.
According to a July 2009 "Marie Claire" magazine article entitled "Four
Flirting Fun Facts--With Research to Back Them Up!" by Maura Kelly, men
may show their interest by telltale body language cues. For instance, he
may repeatedly catch your eye from across the room. Or, even if he's
talking with someone else, he may angle his feet in your direction. Both
men and women also tend to "peacock" around the people they're
interested in, so a man might stretch to expand his chest or put his
hands in his front pockets to draw your eyes toward his groin.
Step 2
Note
if he tries to touch you. In the "Marie Claire" article "10 Signs He Is
Interested in You" by Matt Titus, if a man digs you, he's more likely
to touch you casually and lean in toward your personal space. He's also
more likely to mimic your movements. So, lean in toward him and see if
he responds similarly. Notice if he brushes your arm or touches your
back to help you though a crowd. An interested man will want to get
physical.
Step 3
Gauge his interest level. According to
the Social Issues Research Centre website, if he regularly asks about
you or the things you're interested in, if he knows your hangouts or
favorite restaurants or if he seems to "coincidentally" show up at a
party you mentioned to him off-hand, then chances are he's looking for
something more.
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